Calm down, do the Quan Yin (meditation on the Heavenly Sound); you will hear all the answers. Even if you hear the (inner Heavenly) Sound, you should do the Quan Yin the normal way. All these new ideas, a new way of life, all excitement, all happiness will come from the Quan Yin. All the answers also come from the Quan Yin. It’s a very exciting way. Very exciting. Everything comes from Quan Yin (meditation on the Heavenly Sound). Everything came from the Vibration, so make sure you pay attention to that. […]
Everyone has their own right to follow a different method. OK? Don’t need to worry about converting anybody. Just have fun. I understand that when you have such good experiences, and you feel so nice and happy, you want to share it with everybody, but not everyone is ready for this kind of happiness. Take care of your wife first, OK? One game at a time. Well, you must love your wife very much; otherwise, you wouldn’t be so scared of her. At least, you love her and it’s easy to take care when you love somebody. Do you love your wife? Yes or no? (Yes.) Yes, OK, then you try in a better way. Try to do the things that women like. Then she will like what you do.
The woman likes the man to help her, to pay attention to everything she needs, to help her with little things in the house, and [to] help her when she is carrying heavy things. Help her before she asks. Don’t wait for a woman to ask you to help. You have to always pay attention. See what she likes. And when you live together long enough, you know her habits. And you try to make her happy in every little way, helping her a lot and always [paying] attention to her and [paying] compliments to her. She’s beautiful today: “Beautiful dress!” “Beautiful earrings – look good on you!” “You look good anyway.” Anything! Just try to find something to say, but have to be sincere. Because if you love your wife, she must have something that you love. So, praise her and buy a little gift now and again. Give her a lot of hugs, a lot of kisses, and every day like that. She will feel secure. And then she will be happy with you, and then she will know that this method makes you a better man. And then she will be interested.
I know it’s difficult, but if you love her, it’s easy. Just show your love, express your love; that’s all she needs. Tell her every day about everything that you appreciate about her. Maybe in the beginning, you did – now you forget. Every day, make it a new, new date. Tell her, “My God, your cooking is so good! Outside cooking doesn’t taste good to me,” for example. Find something nice. Or, “Your nose is so special!” “Your hair is so smooth, so dark, so shiny!” Anything! “Your feet are so dainty, so cute!” Give her a little foot massage every day – whenever she feels tired, at least. Buy her some little hair clip, whatever. Say, “Today I saw this and I thought you are the only one who would make this hair clip worthwhile.” Make her feel special and very, very loved. A woman is melted by love. If you make your woman feel very loved, very special, there’s nothing she cannot do for you.
Men are not insecure like women. A woman, when she grows a little older and has children, she begins to worry whether her husband still loves her or not. And then suddenly you change: you eat vegan, you follow a Master – a woman – and she’s a little scared. And then you go [to] group meditation. She wonders how many beautiful women you met here, whether you still even think of her at all! When you meet so many beautiful women here – same ideal, same vegan, same group – she worries very much. You must know this. So you must make her feel absolutely loved [and] secure, that she’s the only woman for you. And let her know that. Tell her that. Write it to her. Say it with flowers, with (vegan) candy, with chocolate, every day in whatever way you do to remind her of your love. Then she will be very happy, and she won’t worry and then you do whatever you want. She won’t worry. I promise.
Important: show your love. Show it, tell it, express it. Not just know it; because you know, she doesn’t know. She’s not telepathic. If she [were], she already would follow you and meditate with you. She doesn’t know you, see? Same with women. If you have a problem with your man, do the same. There’s no problem between man and woman except insecurity and the lack of love. OK? More hugging, more kissing. More sweet talk, romantic expression, and everything’s OK. Anybody else have any romantic problem?
You have to go? Go, go, go. Brother… You want to borrow a telephone out here? You can go and phone your mother or just go home. Just call and say you’re are going home. That’s it. Don’t be afraid too much. Your nerves will be bad. OK, 9 o’clock. Half past 8 or 9? (Thirty past 9.) Should we go home? I go see the kids. Thank you for your love. Go first. Let her go first. Oh, but take some (vegan) cakes. Bring, bring. Give me some fruit for her – fruit or (vegan) cakes, whatever. Come here. OK. Can bring some to your mother. Bag, bag, bag. (Bring to your mother.) (Thank You.) Bring some to your mother. Good luck! Don’t be afraid; we die only once.
OK, guys. Look already old. So much work to do. Here, here. Wow, looks good. Share. Looks really good. All for you. See you maybe another time. Love you. (Master, I love You.) You look very much like a Korean. Love you. See you later, another time. God loves you. (I love You.) (I love You.) Buddha bless you. Whatever question you have, just forget it for a while. Later, you will understand. Have all the answers in here, really.
Calm down, do the Quan Yin (meditation on the Heavenly Sound); you will hear all the answers. Even if you hear the (inner Heavenly) Sound, you should do the Quan Yin the normal way. All these new ideas, a new way of life, all excitement, all happiness will come from the Quan Yin. All the answers also come from the Quan Yin. It’s a very exciting way. Very exciting. Everything comes from Quan Yin (meditation on the Heavenly Sound). Everything came from the Vibration, so make sure you pay attention to that.
You’re OK already. Why you worry so much I don’t know. You’re really good. Even if you lose your wife, have another one, no problem. But if you lose the opportunity to go Home, maybe it will take many thousands [of] years. Korean people – very nice. Korean people – very nice, very sincere. I couldn’t go yet. Just such nice people; I had to stay a little while. Yeah! I was going to the airport that day. And then you made me stay. Anything is just [an] excuse. Just your sincerity stopped me. See you. I’m always with you, OK?
Go[ing] to see the kids. Where are the kids? In here? Where are the kids? (In the restaurant.) In the restaurant. They’re not here? (Here, here.) Some are here. But you said there is a room for kids. Where are they? In [the] restaurant? The second floor. Second floor. OK. Bring me. This for kids? (Yes.) For everybody. Right? Flowers as well. I’ll go see [the] children. Can you see me or no? Nothing. On TV? (Yes, yes.) TV, ah… Better than the old times when the Buddha was here – no TV.
Who are these? Another room? (Another room, yes.) Ah, cannot see anything. (There’s a TV.) A TV there? How many people are in there? (About 12.) (About 20.) Ten? Twenty. Twenty. Come here. Come out. Come out. They can see me. Yeah. Everybody come out already? Yeah. Squeeze a little bit in the back. Ah, 20 Buddhas. Never enough room. You see?
Hallo. Cute. Same one, huh? The same? Korea? No.? Aulacese (Vietnamese)? (Yes, Aulacese [Vietnamese]. New.) Where from? From here? New from US? (Yes.) Got it. Understand. Snooping around, huh? Hey, here. Where? (Here.) Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. This yours? (Yes.) So beautiful, like mother and father, mixed. We have a lot of (vegan) candies up there. (Yes.) Can you bring me? (Yes, coming.)
How are you? Some more here? Come here. Outside, too many people. Candy, candy. Come here. You like this? She wants this? (Yes.) More here. Come here, come here. Oh! Alright. OK. Yeah. OK? Next one. Kids. Here. Here. (Thank You.) Mix together. Mix it up. Yeah. Some candies. Oh. OK. OK. OK. OK. Your clothes. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, how? (Wow. Thank You, Master.) Help her, help her. Anyone? Kids? Yeah. Children? (Big kids.) OK. Big kids, take care. OK. OK. Take it yourselves. (Thank You, Master.) Kids have already? Kids. Big kids. Yeah. Whoever [doesn’t] have. You have it? Alright. See you. (Thank You, Master.) (Bye-bye.) (Bye-bye.)
